When we buy something new such as a new computer or TV, the novelty of having it will feel like it will last forever. But with time, the novelty will wear off.
When we become so fixated on wanting something, we elevate its value so high that it drives us to get it immediately. Our vision of having it seems like it will solve all of our needs. But after we have it, it will become all too familiar. Just another thing we have–another thing we possess.
To put things into perspective, we must not look at this new thing as if it will fix and solve everything. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t have any value, however. Rather, it serves a specific need, whether that is bringing a little comfort, convenience, or joy to our life.
It’s kind of like wanting to read a new book or wanting to watch a new movie. After the experience is over, we feel happy, overjoyed even. But sooner or later, the novelty will wear off. And then it’s on to the next thing . . .
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